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Author :: Kavit Haria, The Musicians Coach  |
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Over the past few years or so, I've had the chance to meet many
successful people. Actually, many of them I have known for years
and I meet them regularly, but I guess I had just taken the fact
that they were successful for granted. When I realised I could
learn so much from them, and see what they do to be successful,
maybe I can be successful too. I ask all of them a simple
question: "How can I become successful like you?" and the reply
I always get is along the lines of "How successful you are is
dependent on the quality of your relationships."
This has got me thinking and pondering on the topic of
RELATIONSHIPS for a long time now, and people who know me well
enough, have always said that they can see a change in me, when
they do.
There was a stone in my path though. As the Law of Attraction
plays a crucial role in my life, I always used to think that if
I am Deliberately Creating or attracting more of what I want
then how will I be able to maintain good relationships with
people who may not appreciate what I want? How can I have what I
want while at the same time allow the other person to have what
they want? Especially if we each desire something different?
HARMONY
If you're in a relationship (it doesn't have to be a personal
one!), one of the main things you tend to look out for is
harmony. In my house, if I leave things lying around, I need to
take into consideration how it may affect someone else, but if
it's just in my room, then I don't.
The only way to get what you want, while the others get what
they want is through Clear Communication. Most disagreements
come about NOT by deliberately disagreeing, but by being in
DEFAULT mode and not understanding what the other person is
wanting.
Here are 4 steps to Crystal Clear Communication that will help
maintain the intention of being in harmony.
1. Identify your desire: Become crystal clear about what you
want and why you want it. 2. Effectively communicate your desire
and intention to the other person. 3. Communicate segment by
segment. Take time to be sure you are fully communicating and
fully understood. 4. Understand your emotions and how you are
feeling as this will help you tell whether you are in harmony,
or not, and what to do to move towards to it.
One 'trap' I've noticed is that I often think I already know how
a person is going to respond to my communication - and according
to the Law of Attraction, if I think they are going to react
strongly, they most likely will.
The trick is to BELIEVE that the Universe wants to give me the
desire of my heart AND maintain HARMONY in my relationships.
How? Ah, that's the fun part. The Universe has an infinite
number of ways to achieve this feat...that's half the
fun...wondering and watching how it will work out.
But why am I telling you this? For me, it's a success secret
that has really worked well and I've received so much abundance
in terms of prosperity, money, wealth, and much more by creating
harmonious relationships where people build awareness, trust and
love for each other that they work with each other in the
exchange of "energies."
Do you have a secret dream, desire or hope? Get in touch with us
to learn how YOU can live your dream!
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